Karen Oates is an Empowerment Expert and Soul Coach.  

Certified as - NLP Master Practitioner and Results Coach and Trained Evolved Leadership Coach

Karen Oates       P. +64 (0)22 354 2319    E. karen@karenoates.com
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Copyright: Karen Oates 2013. Unauthorized reproduction, distribution, or exhibition of this copyrighted material is strictly prohibited

THE MOST IMPORTANT MESSAGE YOU WILL
READ TODAY, MAYBE EVER.
TO MY BRAVE, FRISKY, KICKASS SOUL QUEEN:
OUR TIME HAS INDEED COME, IT’S TIME TO LIVE
ALL OF LIFE IN HIGH GEAR

You:

Born to be challenged by some of the biggest and messiest life
events, you refuse to have that diminish your spirit or quest to
find the true meaning of your life and the expansiveness of
growing into all that you can be and claim all that life can offer.


It’s like a calling. A calling from within.


Your adventurous fun spirit, your fancy for the elegant stuff in life,
your never give up mindset and your desire to experience the
juiciness of real passion, fulfilment and purpose means you will
NEVER sell out on yourself or your dreams.

Me:

Just like you, big heart and gut wrenching crazy life happenings had me searching for more, searching for understanding and
meaning knowing that how I was experiencing life was not how it’s supposed to be.

 

I have a relish for life that nothing can quell.


I live BIG, in the way I have CHOSEN to create and live my life.


Adventure could easily be my middle name, (what was my mother thinking by making it Margaret!) Alignment is the principal that is
 

MOST important to me and I choose passion, freedom and friskiness as a way of life.


You won’t find me dancing daintily around the ‘Kumbaya’ campfire but my soul,

 

my inner guidance is my guide, my best buddy and my kickass leader.

 

I am unapologetically ME. I have things to do. BIG things.


Do not expect me to be anything less than ME and do not look for me to be doing anything other than living MY best life.

SO:

It’s time.


It’s YOUR time.


We all know what happens when we have gone through that crazy, crappy, chaotic big stuff.


We make it mean everything that we are NOT.


That we are not worthy or good enough. We are bad, guilty, ashamed, undeserving. And it goes on.
Resentment, self-blame and dissatisfaction can be rife.


Fear runs the show.


We create a story that is 100%, categorically, undeniably BULLSHIT.


We mask up and we shut down. We question who we are and what the F#%$ life is really about.


Oh, that doesn’t mean our life has NO satisfaction or fulfillment or success or love.


But it does mean that it feels like there is a gaping hole.
Somewhere Inside. Somewhere deep.
Afraid to find out who you really are, to go after what you want, and claim that life you know you came here to live.


It does mean at times you question everything.


But YOU are the never give up, brave, kickass soul queen, right?


So, let’s get real – If you look around you, there is an apathy and resignation about people’s LOT.


A collective viewpoint that it’s okay to SETTLE. That you can’t have what you want or dream big and go after that.


I can almost guarantee that at one point maybe even right now, you’ve told yourself it’s all okay and besides, you haven’t had things change to this point so you might as well just hunker down and make the most of it.


WELL IT’S NOT OKAY!


And YOU, your soul, knows that.


WE WON’T SELL OUT ON OURSELVES!


ITS TIME TO STAND UP AND CLAIM YOU.


TO FLING OFF THE MASK, TO ADORN THE KICKASS QUEEN


ATTITUDE AND ALLOW THE REAL YOU TO COME OUT TO PLAY!


Admit it:


You look around you and see the dissension and dissatisfaction, how others are settling and justifying the ho-humanness that they live.


You KNOW that is not meant for you.


You’ve always known that you were meant to live an amazing life.

That true happiness is how you are supposed to live and not just a myth or something you might catch just a glimpse of.
 

That true love is your birthright.


The best health is available when you choose no other option.


That success and abundance are yours when you step into it.


That whatever lifestyle and ‘stuff’ you choose is what you are supposed to have and to experience.


You know what?? Me too.


I’ve always known.

I’ve ALWAYS known I’m meant to be have it all, and I’ve always


known I would get to help others to let go of their BULLSHIT and play the game of life THEIR way!

But here’s the thing. The real thing.


WHEN?


When, are you going to reveal your spirit, your uniqueness, your quirkiness and true MAGIC? WHEN?


It’s one thing to agree with me, to get just a little bit (or a crazy lot) excited about what might be possible for you.


It’s one thing to KNOW that there is so much MORE of you to give to yourself, your family and indeed the world.


It’s one thing to feel the taste of success and love and abundance and health and all the yummy, gooey deliciousness of life as you have always imagined it.


IT’s ANOTHER THING ENTIRELY TO MAKE A DAMN DECISION


THAT ALL THESE THINGS GET TO BECOME REAL - YOUR


TASTE IT, FEEL IT, SEE IT, SMELL IT KICKASS REALITY!

NOBODY IS GOING TO COME ALONG,  KNOCK ON YOUR DOOR,


AND DELIVER YOUR DREAM LIFE ON A SILVER PLATTER JUST BECAUSE YOU WANTED IT OR YOU FEEL DESTINED FOR IT.

 

And here is what I KNOW – EVERYTHING is available for YOU.

 

But enough with the excuses.


Do you want to be the woman who lies in her bed on the last day of her life and asks the question:

 

What the F$%# was that all about?


I have no idea what the meaning of my life was. It just felt hard and tough. I never got to live the life I thought I was meant for.

 

I had opportunities and I didn’t take them.

I could have experienced real love and I didn’t allow it. I have regrets and I feel sadness.

Or do you want to be the woman who sits up on that last day and says:


Yeehaa!! What a ride that was! I feel like I have truly LIVED my life.


Oh, hell yes, there was struggle and tough times, but I remember the exact moment when I said, THAT’S IT!


NOT ANOTHER FREAKIN’DAY!


Not another moment will I settle for a life of regrets and mediocrity. Not another day will I see myself through the mask of fear and unworthiness.

 

From that moment, I pledged to do whatever it took to find and truly know me, live in alignment with my soul and create the life I know I came here for.

 

I truly sucked the marrow from the bones of my life and lived it just as I wanted it to be!


I have no regrets and I am so thankful for it all BUT I GET IT.

 

It’s scary. You can give yourself a million and one reason’s NOT to go claim you and your life.


But I also know this – You can CHOOSE right NOW.


And you can have it all Right now.


The only question is?


Are you going to CHOOSE YOU today and do that?

It’s time.